Is a little chaos actually good for us?  To answer this question, I want to say that God will not put you through so much that you can not bear. To be perfectly honest with all of you; there is only so much that I can and can not bear anyway.  Therefore, I think that everyone has his or her own fixed limits, and God has them to. At least I will not endorse it.  Thank you for allowing me to answer this question to the best of my ability.