What is validation?This is a report that pertains to the issue of validation. Let us start off by asking ourselves a very important question. What is validation? Validation is when there is equity and full wholesome acceptance that is between God, Jesus Christ and a person themselves. It is when a person is fully connected and accepted by a power greater than themselves first and foremost. Second, a person will have to learn how to accept themselves as a member of the human race. Third, a person must receive a divine happiness within themselves by learning to acknowledge that it is a decision to change for the better and with courage and determination they will achieve and overcome all obstacles. Validation is when we look at in another sense, it is we as people who can assure our own selves that we can achieve goals and obtain the things that we need without assistance from others. It is God that makes us a path to success that will enable us to avoid all distractions and negative influences. I love God and Jesus Christ as my Savior and my compass whenever I am lost!!!! Fourth, when my direction has been steered off course, it is God and Jesus Christ that will pick me up and show me the right way to go. Both of them will put me right back on track. As long as I am making an effort to achieve success and do things that are positive, I will be all right. Fifth, God, Grant me the serenity to accept the things that I cannot change. Give me the courage to change the things that I can. Give me the wisdom to know the difference. This is the serenity prayer. This is what I recite each day. It is common sense and it helps more than anything else. Do you know that it is common sense that overrides nonsense? When one achieves common sense in their lives, they will be able to override the things that do not make sense to begin with. Sixth, you are supposed to be around others who are positive speaking and positive thinking each day. Taking a proactive way of doing things will enable others to achieve a great deal of success. Being proactive means to have a way of thinking that is positive and it will enable you to think rationally and without strain from stressors. Proactiveness means to make decisions that are focus minded and with direction and structure. Never allowing others to distract you or influence you to go backwards. Creativity means to engage in behaviors that will manipulate change by making your way of thinking to rationalize or visualize inside of your mind things that can spark change. This means to improvise a behavior that is positive thinking and without duplication. This means not doing what others are doing to impress society. Be who you are for who you are for your own self. Never do things just to keep up with the joneses and with society at large. When you do this, you are depriving yourself all together from your own abilities to achieve things for yourself. This means that you are a follower. I would prefer to be a leader than a follower any day of the week. Be yourself and you will be all right. Respect your elders and never curse them. Men always respect women. This is because they are the mothers of the earth. It is man himself that plants a seed of procreation. The men are supposed to be the leaders of the home. It is the women who are the auxiliaries to men of the world. A man is supposed to be the leaders of each home. However it is women who are leaders of the home because the men of the world are not around. Communication between men and women has changed dramatically since the year 2000. I say this because men and women have agendas that are very different. This means that men and women are focus on things that are concerning themselves and their own way of survival. It is women who are taking care of themselves and their own children. It is the female who is fulfilling both male and female roles simultaneously. This means that a woman is being the father and the mother to their own children. This also means that a child will have to adapt to having a mother to show them how they are supposed to deal with dual roles themselves. How would a child understand the role of a father and a mother at the same time when they do not see it inside of the home for themselves? Validation comes into play when there are both males and females inside of the home for that child so that child will not have to be confused growing up. This means that a child will have to understand the role of themselves first and their caretakers simultaneously. This racks the brain of a child as well as adults. I refuse to allow this to happen to me. I am stable in my own mind not to allow negative influences to keep me inside of the sand. I have the power and the mindset to override negativity. God Bless All of You!!!!Sincerely,Anthony Hopkins