A Complete Family
What is a complete family? A complete family is a family that a person establishes on their own. In my case, due to the economic conditions and restraints, it is very difficult for me to have a family on my own. A complete family on the other hand is a mother, father and children that are living inside of one house. A complete family is one that is well nurtured and satisfied with one another. At least in complete families, there are good and bad times. However, each member as a cohesive unit relate well with one another. Due to economic restraints, there are people who decide not to have children after all. This is because it is very difficult to take care of children and yourself. It is not to say that I am not able to become a successful parent. I am successful as an uncle and great uncle to over 30 niece and nephews. There are so many niece and nephews in my own family that I cannot count.

I just know that in my own set of circumstances, maybe it is not the time for me to become a father. I am not knocking myself out in any way, but it is best to become somewhat stable when it comes to finances as well as making sure that all active issues are resolved. This goes for anyone who has decided to become a parent. This applies to anyone whose thinking is above what is normal. What I am saying is that you have men, women, and children who are becoming parents without proper planning and thinking. Sometimes people have a tendency to make a very serious mistake in becoming a parent too soon. This damages communications between mother, father, and children.
There is tension and stress when the two people who are parents are not on one accord. This means that you have made a hasty decision in becoming a parent to the wrong person. You have made a bad choice in finding a person to become a parent with. When selecting the right person to become a mother or a father to your own children, you must be extremely careful. You must go through the processing and filtering stage. This means that you must do your own system check when you are finding the right man or woman to become life partners with.