How important is it for Families to Stay Together?

Let’s look at this for a moment. What is the definition of a family? A family consists of men, women, and children if necessary. A family can also consists of people that you are affiliated with on a regular basis. Unity is paramount because of the fact that it has a lot to do with people and how well they connect with each other. However, at times, a family is important because fathers have a tendency to become completely absent from the unit itself. This is done by choice!!! I really do not understand why family deterioration exists when it shouldn’t. This happens because women and men have communication problems.

Next, let’s have look at culture as it relates to family itself. What is the definition of culture? Culture is the total way of life that is shared by members of a society. Culture and family are intertwined. This is simply because no matter what the ethnicity that a person comes from, it is important for this unit to stay intact. There are times that a family unit is sometimes divided!!! When we look at indentured servitude, this occurred because of a mass separation of a family unit because of force. However, there are times that people have a tendency to engage in behaviors that seem as if we are living inside of a primitive past. Why behave in this nature? There are times that it’s still taking many cultures to really find lost relatives and those from their past that are unfamiliar to them. We call this a scattered past. A scattered past is one who is totally unfamiliar with their ancestry and those relatives that were unknown to mankind.

In addition, when we really look at family and a sense of unity, there is a bond with parents that will never leave us. For instance, a child as soon as they become adults will never forget their parents. In most cases, children experience what we call an identity crisis. There are times that men have this identity crisis even in their present relationships with women. This is hard to explain for most men because they are reluctant to discuss their families and their personal past. Why are men reluctant to discuss their family honestly and truthfully with their significant others? I really do not have the answer for all men, but I can share this myself as a man because I have never been reluctant to reveal anything to others. There are times that women tend to behave in this manner. Women and men both become emotionally numb. Why is this sense of emotional numbness exist? This is because men and women have a propensity to hide their true feelings from each other. As far as family is concerned, a family unit is one that should never be broken or separated.

Further, a family unit is important to all people no matter where you come from. This is simply because a family is one that is created between men and women by personal choice!!!! This is a rational and an irrational decision that is made by people on a daily basis. In our personal economic times, is it that important to have a family? This is a choice for people no matter what their socio-economic status consists of at the moment. People who have financial problems as well as those who have emotional difficulties at least they are trying to keep their families intact. There are those who are experiencing addiction and other active issues and at least they’re trying their hardest to hold on to things that are precious to them. The family itself is important to all people.

Moreover, let’s look at gender for a moment. Gender is a sexual identity that consists of men and women. This is determined inside of the womb of women. Why his hard for some men to hold on to their families? The answer is that men have a tendency to allow their emotional baggage from their personal past to hinder them from success. This also applies to men who are involved with human relationships with women at the moment. Men tend to tell lies and become deceitful in order to maintain their relationships with their significant others. Honestly, there are times when men really do not recognize what a mature woman look like inside of their faces. Women on the other hand, tend to bear most of their emotional issues from their previous relationships with the men from their personal past. There are times that women; while they were little girls had negative experiences inside of their own biological families. This occurs in the acting out behaviors that are manifested in their personalities.

Also, both men and women are alike when it comes to the importance of family. It’s that there are issues that exist in the present that are not resolved. For example, issues that arise between their respected family members that become unresolved as well as other issues with people from the past that becomes unsolved. On the other hand, men use a lot of psychological head games with women and other men just to try to distract others from success.