Is It Better to Marry Than To Burn With Passion?  God is referring to a Man and a Woman who are single, but have a burning desire to be with each other sexually.  In the Bible, it says if a man and a woman, cannot exercise self control, then it is better to marry than to Burn With Passion.  All that I am saying is be very careful with each other.  The definition of burning with passion is an excessive desire to have sex with the person, who you are choosing to be with.  The word contain is mentioned in the Bible.  Contain means to exercise self control.  Obviously, it means to put a lid on something or stop doing something before you end up getting into trouble with God.

The Apostle Paul is saying to those who are widows and unmarried this message pertains to you.  For me personally, I refuse to get married because it will only make things worse between my potential spouse and I.  I will have to explain to her that I have a mental Illness called Schizoid Affective Disorder.  This is caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain of the person who is mentally ill.  There are times when I hear and see things that normal people don’t see or hear.  These are called auditory and visual hallucinations.  There are over 100 million people who suffer from a mental illness worldwide.  If I have a problem with someone of the opposite sex, I would go take a walk.  I know for myself, things are going to be abnormal.  I was involved in a serious relationship with a much older woman.  She did not do anything, but use me for what I can give to her at the time.  I was working two jobs during the 1990s.  I worked and I was involved in a much serious relationship with a woman, who was 11 years older than me.  She had a desire for another person without my common knowledge.  She had given me two STDs.  She even had sex with another man, while I was at work.  I left her and everything that was inside of the apartment.  I didn’t look back.  January 21, 1990, I terminated my relationship and moved out of my apartment.  I stayed with relatives until things got better for me. 

Moreover, at that time, I was being too nice to the wrong person.  Apparently, she told me in my face that she did not love me.  I was furious with her.  I can talk about it right now because if a person does something to hurt me, I have to leave them alone forever. I will excommunicate with anyone. It doesn’t matter if you are one of my family members, if you do something to hurt me, I will be done with you. Therefore, I am done with my relationships. I can speak to you, if I see you face to face, but I will not help you or give up money like I used to. My marriage left me broke and disgusted. I will admit that I have trust issues when it comes to women. I got used so bad that I had to leave her alone. I no longer communicate with any of my ex girlfriends and ex wife. I am doing exactly what the Bible says about self control and getting married

Finally, my ex wife cheated on me with another man. I really don’t talk to her anymore. She messed me up so bad that I had to go out of town just to redeem myself. It has taken me a total of 12 years to forgive her. This woman literally messed up my credit. I am the type of person, who will help anyone. It doesn’t matter who you are, if you need help, I am there for you. Please continue to keep me in your prayers and thoughts because I am still devastated.