Men, Women, and Behavior

This is a blog that pertains to the differences between men, women, and behavior. The reasons why there are differences in behavior between men and women are simple. First, men are the first species to be created by God. However, men have an entirely different way of behaving and communicating from women. Second, men are prone to crying; it’s that men tend to withhold their feelings and tears.

Men are conditioned to become mentally tough; when they are not. At least this goes for some. Men are trained earlier in their lives to deal with their emotions entirely different than women. Let me explain this in detail. Men, while they were little boys were always around their fathers a lot. Women on the other hand were inside of the house. The reason for this is simply because mothers didn’t want their girl playing outside and getting hurt. I can understand this because I have 3 sisters. My mother was very overprotective of my sisters.

Women tend to handle responsibilities a whole lot better than men. This is simply because girls mature faster than boys. Whereas boys handle maturity and responsibility and this is based on responsibility that is learned earlier on as a child. I had to learn how to responsibility as a little boy because my mother had to deal with things away from the home. Therefore, I was the oldest and I had to take care of the family.

Next, this has a lot to do with age and sibling order. This has a lot to do with the oldest to the youngest. When a man becomes a father, he has to learn how to condition and to learn how to take care of children. This has a whole lot to do with child rearing or how he was raised as a child. This also has a lot to do with how he was treated as a child himself. This also applies to women in the same way. The only difference is that women are the bearers of children. They are the only species that is created by God that can give birth to children.

Further, men rely more on ego and their ability to control their environment than woman. Why is this? Men have always wanted control in any relationship. Women are passionate, considerate, understanding, patient, and they know men a lot better than men know themselves. Women are the detectives in any relationship. I say this personally because this has applied in all of my relationships with them. Women offer a great deal of advice that makes sense. This is based on maturity and the ability to become strong communicators. I have always listened to my elders that were women growing up because they are responsible for raising me. I really didn’t have my father around and my grandparent raised me as well as my mother.

Moreover, men are sometimes one sided in their communication. This is simply because they have always wanted control in any of their relationships. Women can become the same way in most cases. When it comes to the environment, some people can allow surroundings to become a distraction. Men and women tend to engage in communication that intimidates others. Men tend to become jealous of other men because of status and class. Like they say, all human behavior is learned. According to social psychologists, most would say that 90% of human behavior is learned. As children we learn how to conduct ourselves from being around our parents. I say this is true because the home is where a child first learns how to develop their personality, values, and understandings of what is right and wrong, and his habits and other behaviors. Men tend to learn how to control others and their personal environment through various behaviors.

In addition, women are the second species to be created by God through the rib of man; while he slept. This is inside of the Book of Genesis in the Holy Bible. Women are very gentle and emotional creatures. Women are intelligent, educated, and they communicate differently than men. Women have a way of communicating than men. They learn from each other in ways that are very different. I say this because my sisters used to be around their female friends and they did want boys around. Boys behaved in the same way. This is how both men and women learn how to keep things private.

Finally, I have as a person learned how to develop as a person by being around both my caretakers and my friends. I lived with my grandparents for several years. My grandmother used to take me to church all of the time. I lived around women all of my life. I have learned how to respect women and receive their advice personally. I know that the emphasis was education and leaning how to become a man. I have lived with my mother as well. A person’s behavior varies from person to person and this is based on what their personal values were themselves. I am a 45 year old man who is not afraid to cry in front of others. I am an emotional creature just like everyone else. I am also still learning a whole lot about life. No matter how old you are as person, you still have a lot to learn from each other. We are human beings with needs, wants, desires, passions, determination, and the drive to achieve. I have learned from everyone I have been around, even those who I do not know personally.

Sincerely,
Anthony Joseph Hopkins