Expectations & Human Relationships
This is an essay concerning the expectations when it pertains to human relationships. First, we must ask ourselves a question. What are expectations when it pertains to human relationships? Human Relationships consists of communication both direct and indirect. This means nonverbal and verbal communication as well as association. When we are in close contact with each other, we are learning what the other person is like. We are learning their habits, personality, as well as the way they conduct themselves around others. It does not matter whether these people are in our family or on the street. The best ways to communicate with anyone is by introducing yourself to another person and see what kind of response you will receive. Second, another way of communicating to others is by letter or online. Although this is classified as maintaining a false relationship or a pen-pal, but sometimes this leads into a relationship that is direct eventually, if things turn out positive. However, in most cases, people get hurt because the other person’s expectations are different than yours.
What do we mean by expectations? Let’s look at what is the definition of an expectation. An expectation is a goal or a set standard that is derived from the behavior of people. Our expectations when it pertains to human relationships are to make sure that we are honest and truthful to the best of our ability. When we are honest and truthful to another person, we are doing God’s work. If we are content with our own actions, why worry. I am a person who does not worry what others think about me. It is God who has the final word. Man can make an opinion and this is it. Man cannot tell me what to do when I am an adult. I am supposed to love and respect my parents as well as my elders.
When it comes to people, I am supposed to love them as well. I am also supposed to exercise and use discretion at all times. My expectations when it comes to human relationships are to do my very best to assist the other person. This is by showing them that I can love them for the person that they are without hurting them in any way. I try my very best each day not to damage others no matter where they come from. No matter what their socio-economic background consists of, I am supposed to respect you. Life itself is really what you make of it. Learning how to respect others instead of hurting them because of what they have or do not have. It is not all about what possessions that you have as a person. It is all about how others receive you as a member of the human race.
You know that another person can disrespect you by calling you names that can damage you, but as long as you are breathing and living, you must still stand strong. Never allow the shallow expectations of others to cause you to crumble. Standing up for yourself and making a direct stand in your own life, makes you strong as a person. We all have rights as United States Citizens and we must use these rights to stand up for ourselves in a very positive way. We must learn to be proactive rather than reactive. Your expectations are just yours.
They cannot be transferred to another person unless they are your children. Your children alone are supposed to listen to their parents. Adults on the other hand have choices. This comes when we are selecting a significant other or a spouse in our lives. I cannot tell you to marry me and demand it. I can only persuade you. I can make a statement and ask you in a very nice way about marriage. This is your choice alone. I have made numerous of good and bad choices in my life. I cannot allow the choices that I have made in my own past to slow down my progress. My goals and expectations as a member of the human race are to become successful as a God Fearing Man.
I know that I must make good choices and my expectations when it comes to human relationships are to become spouse or significant other for that special female in my life. God will bless me with that special female who is a God Fearing Woman who has special qualities. She is that diamond that shines as soon as it has emerged from the ground. This diamond I will cherish forever. I will do everything in my power to keep this diamond in my possession for the rest of my entire existence. A solid Gold Bouillon is the same exact way. The way I personally feel from the inside out, is that I want a female who shares the same ideas just like me.
I like to converse with her on a daily basis and share about my entire day. There are player hating men out there who just do not want the next man to have a good African American woman. I am telling you the truth. Men are so jealous of each other that they need to mind their own business. This is a big problem in the African American Community, this is called jealousy. Men have always been jealous of the other and this is causing an outrage in our community when it comes to women.
