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Expectations & Human RelationshipsThis is a report concerning the expectations when it pertains to human relationships. First, we must ask ourselves a question. What are expectations when it pertains to human relationships? Human Relationships consists of communication both direct and indirect. This means nonverbal and verbal communication as well as association. When we are in close contact with each other, we are learning what the other person is like. We are learning their habits, personality, as well as the way they conduct themselves around others. It does not matter whether these people are in our family or on the street. The best ways to communicate with anyone is by introducing yourself to another person and see what kind of response you will receive. Second, another way of communicating to others is by letter or online. Although this is classified as maintaining a false relationship or a pen-pal, but sometimes this leads into a relationship that is direct eventually, if things turn out positive. However, in most cases, people get hurt because the other person’s expectations are different than yours. What do we mean by expectations? Let’s look at what is the definition of an expectation. An expectation is a goal or a set standard that is derived from the behavior of people. Our expectations when it pertains to human relationships are to make sure that we are honest and truthful to the best of our ability. When we are honest and truthful to another person, we are doing God’s work. If we are content with our own actions, why worry. I am a person who does not worry what others think about me. It is God who has the final word. Man can make an opinion and this is it. Man cannot tell me what to do when I am an adult. I am supposed to love and respect my parents as well as my elders.When it comes to people, I am supposed to love them as well. I am also supposed to exercise and use discretion at all times. My expectations when it comes to human relationships are to do my very best to assist the other person. This is by showing them that I can love them for the person that they are without hurting them in any way. I try my very best each day not to damage others no matter where they come from. No matter what their socio-economic background consists of, I am supposed to respect you. Life itself is really what you make of it. Learning how to respect others instead of hurting them because of what they have or do not have. It is not all about what possessions that you have as a person. It is all about how others receive you as a member of the human race. You know that another person can disrespect you by calling you names that can damage you, but as long as you are breathing and living, you must still stand strong. Never allow the shallow expectations of others to cause you to crumble. Standing up for yourself and making a direct stand in your own life, makes you strong as a person. We all have rights as United States Citizens and we must use these rights to stand up for ourselves in a very positive way. We must learn to be proactive rather than reactive. Your expectations are just yours. They cannot be transferred to another person unless they are your children. Your children alone are supposed to listen to their parents. Adults on the other hand have choices. This comes when we are selecting a significant other or a spouse in our lives. I cannot tell you to marry me and demand it. I can only persuade you. I can make a statement and ask you in a very nice way about marriage. This is your choice alone. I have made numerous of good and bad choices in my life. I cannot allow the choices that I have made in my own past to slow down my progress. My goals and expectations as a member of the human race are to become successful as a God Fearing Man. I know that I must make good choices and my expectations when it comes to human relationships are to become spouse or significant other for that special female in my life. God will bless me with that special female who is a God Fearing Woman who has special qualities. She is that diamond that shines as soon as it has emerged from the ground. This diamond I will cherish forever. I will do everything in my power to keep this diamond in my possession for the rest of my entire existence. A solid Gold Bouillon is the same exact way. The way I personally feel from the inside out, is that I want a female who shares the same ideas just like me.I like to converse with her on a daily basis and share about my entire day. There are player hating men out there who just do not want the next man to have a good African American woman. I am telling you the truth. Men are so jealous of each other that they need to mind their own business. This is a big problem in the African American Community, this is called jealousy. Men have always been jealous of the other and this is causing an outrage in our community when it comes to women.

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Numbers 32:23

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This is an opportunity to Repent of all of my sins.  First, I want to thank God for allowing me to confess all of my faults and transgressions to you.  I am surrendering to only You.  I will admit that I have made some mistakes in judgement.  This is because I was only informing another person about a specific problem.  Lord God, I wanted this illegal activity that is going on in the building to stop.  This drug problem has taken a toll on me physically, mentally, psychologically and spiritually. I am taking the Bible seriously now.

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Next, I have been feeling very sick physically because of the smell of marijuanaand other drugs that the residents and criminals are indulging in at the moment.  For Example, I made a phone call to My AA Sponsor because I was vomiting up blood on Sunday of this week.  The Property Manager quarrelled with me about the drug problem that is taking place inside of Wentworth Hi Rise Apartments.  I had to get transported to Grandview Hospital because I smelled something like marijuana laced with fentanyl.

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Finally, I want to inform those who are in the Drug Selling Trade that God is watching you and me.  I know that my neighbor’s are still awake because I have decided to do some writing.  Lord Jesus, I love my neighbors however, do they love me in return? 85% percent of the residents love and respect me for me.  I am in need of prayers right now because I am dealing with too many health issues.  Lord Jesus, I am in need of Your Protection right now.  Lord,  whatever I have done wrong. Only you understand as well as the 85% of the residents in the building!

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James 3:14-16

James 3:14-16 Commentary

James 3:14-16 says: However, is you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your heart, then stop bragging and living in the ways that deny the truth.

Next, all of this means that if we disclose selfish ambitions inside of our hearts, then the Lord God will be disappointed.  For jealousy and selfishness are not God’s kind of wisdom, but of the world.

Moreover, I want to say that I used to be just like what the Bible verses are talking about.  I used to drink alcohol and smoke marijuana for a total of 18 years.

 This means that from the age of 7 years old until I turned 25 years old, I was inside of the streets of Dayton, Ohio and doing the things that were of the world.  Just like Theologians used to say that the Lust of the Flesh; The Lust of the Eyes, and; The pride of Life is of the world.  I know that this is a plan of action that is utilized by Satan Himself.

However, it affects man spiritually, physically, mentally, emotionally, and psychologically as well. I know for me, it caused me to disrespect all of my authority figures, and act the fool at school.

 I started using vulgarity at an early age as well.  I have changed a whole lot since 1990.  I know that I read the Bible, say my prayers each day and night.  I also read the Bible a whole lot.  I am still learning all about the Bible and how to comply with God Himself.  Frankly, I have to learn how to officially stop using vulgarity for good.  I ask God to always forgive me; whenever I commit a sin of this magnitude.

In Addition, I have to stop arguing with other people because it is not worth it.  What I am doing right now, is taking a walk away from my environment.  I learned this during my anger management classes.  At least, it keeps me out of trouble.  It also keeps me away from the Criminal Justice System. 

Meanwhile, I have been reading and studying Bible verses like this so that I can learn how to watch the things that come out of my mouth.  My AA Sponsor stated to me that I have to start all over doing the 12 Steps of AA Recovery.

 I am starting all over because things have changed whenever it comes to the curriculum of the self-help programs.  I know that there are new things that I have to write down when it comes to working the 12 Steps.  I have to write down a powerless list, accountability list, and responsibilities list as well.

I am responsible for my AA Recovery.  I know that my AA Sponsor is responsible for telling me the things that are feasible in the 12 Steps.  I am responsible for listening and learning these things.

Furthermore, I am supposed to help those who are suffering from alcoholism and other drugs.  I know that every time I read Galatians 6:1 it convicts me.  What this Bible verse is saying that a spiritual person always has to help those who are committing sin.  I also have to be careful myself.

The Bible itself is a manual of rules, regulations, and precepts when it comes to governing human behavior.  I know that things have changed for me during the last 14 years.

 I will admit that I was court ordered to move back to Dayton, Ohio because I was non-compliance for an extended period of time.  Therefore, from 2010-the present, I was ordered to take certain medications for my behavior.  The Mecklenburg County Courts sent me back home because I was evicted out my residence three times in one year.

I know that this is not a laughing matter, but a person’s behavior can and will get you into trouble.  I know that I have to resolve all of my active issues before I pass away.  I have to make direct amends with my family members and friends to whom I have offended in the past.

I also know that I have to pay my student loans debt of $28,000 dollars in interest from my student loans while I was a student at the University of North Carolina at Charlotte.

 I was enrolled in my classes in August of 2003.  I had other student loans to pay in another state.  I have to pay a whole lot of money to all of my creditors.  During that time, I was online at my job.  I was solely responsible for crashing computers by looking at porn online.  By doing so, I ended up causing a Worm Virus that contaminated the hard drive of the computers.

Even though, I was responsible for doing a lot of damage to the computers each time that I used them.  I ended up losing my job because of my behavior.  The University of North Carolina at Charlotte classified me as a threat to the public safety of the staff and student body of the University of North Carolina at Charlotte Campus Community as of Wednesday April 9, 2009.  I was terminated from my job.

I know that this is something that I am supposed to keep to myself.  It even affects me whenever I am applying for jobs anywhere in the United States.  I am also a victim of age discrimination as well.  There are employers who will not hire me because I have to be certified in certain things.

Finally, I want to inform all of you that I am doing a lot better right now.  I know that things have changed for me during the past 14 years.  I am putting things into perspective right now.

 I have been clean and sober for 34 years now.  I have been trying to still pay on my student loans.  I know that every time I apply for a job of any kind, they will be asking for a reference from my previous employers.  I have to be transparent by saying that this is a very serious matter.

In Conclusion, I want to inform all of you that I know how to survive in any city that I have lived in during the past 34 years.  I know that my life is really what I am supposed to make of it.

 My biggest problem is that, I am not able to obtain any job because of my past.  I have changed my overall behavior because I am going through Continued Commitment because of my behavior.  I know that there are people who are trying to compromise my information and use it against me.

These are the people who have scammed me out of money in the past.  This includes a woman to whom that I was involved in a relationship with from September of 1989 to September of 1990.

 I was responsible for giving her money just to satisfy her drug appetite. During a four-month period, I had given her money to do whatever she wanted because I was working two jobs during the time from 1989 through 1990. I am not going to mention her name but there are many people who know who I am talking about.

I have managed to pay my rent and other bills right now because I am no longer involved in any online relationships.  I know that I am solely responsible for engaging in reckless behavior by giving people money that I did not know.  This had taken place from Friday March 13, 2008 through February 28, 2010.  I have given several people a total of $16,977 dollars in Western Union Funds.  I had given a young lady a vast majority of the money.  I had given her a total of $8,865 dollars in Western Union Funds. 

I also had given a young lady some money from September 1, 2016 through July 2, 2017.  I was responsible for giving her a total of $1,550 dollars in Western Union Funds because she stated that she was from Accra, Ghana in Africa.  I want to inform all of you that I used to play the fool myself for a number of years. 

In Summary, I want to inform all of you that this is all my fault and no one else.  I will admit that I felt so bad that I have to start all over in the 12 Steps of AA.  I know that I am taking entirely too much medication for a number of ailments.  To put things into perspective, I am responsible for my own actions.

 I have made a number of mistakes in the past.  Right now, I am paying all of my bills first and foremost.  I am also changing everything in my personal life.

 I know that I have been responsible for making changes in my life because I am staying out of trouble.  I no longer have a desire to drink alcohol and beer.  I no longer have a desire to smoke Crack Cocaine and Marijuana Cigarettes.  Thank You Lord Jesus for saving me from myself.

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Understanding Online Scammers, Hackers, and the Criminal Element This is a very serious problem in our society.  The problem that I am talking about is computer hacking, scammers, and the criminal element.  First, let’s start off by explaining the characteristics of a computer hacker. A computer hacker is a person who is a loner.  This is a person who is excellent when it comes to working technology.  A computer hacker is also a person who enjoys computers, women, and other things.  A computer hacker is also highly intelligent, educated, and in some cases, also have a computer background.  This is a person who possesses an above average IQ and he or she also usually is all by himself.  This person is also a professional liar and he tends to demoralize an innocent person with words, symbols, or statements that does not make sense.  This person uses a computer to cut and paste pictures of women and transfer them into his own personal database.  This person also confuses everyone just like Satan with his statements, and to tell you the truth, his location is unknown to the public and not to God. A scammer is a person who also takes advantage of other people by deceiving them with his or her words.  They also make promises that they do not keep.  A scammer is also a person who uses a computer at times to gain money from innocent people.  A computer scammer and hacker are two different people.   Scammers and Hackers are online using women’s profiles to lure men into starting a conversation with them.  Most of them wait until each woman is completely logged off their computers or their smart phones.  Scammers do not really need a computer to take advantage of another person.  They can use their sense of charm, wit, and intelligence to gain anything from another person.  What make it very dangerous is that most of the women who are victims are women.  They have to prove in a court of law that they are not involved in any illegal activities.  The scammers and hackers who are online right now are active 24 hours per day.  Most of the activity occurs between the hours of Midnight to 6:00AM. The criminal element that is associated with this operation consists of individuals that are in a hierarchy system.  There is a system of people who are high and low ranking officials when it comes to the online scamming criminal element.  This is extremely serious because an average hacker and scammers who are involved in this operation and crime usually earn an average of $100,000 per week.  This money comes from online fraud victims who really do not know that they are being taken advantage of until the last minute.  There is an average of 25,000 reports each year to law enforcement of wire fraud, and social security fraud.  This is because the victims themselves are being used and their information online is being used by scammers and hackers.  Their email accounts and homepages are also used by hackers as soon as they log off their personal computers or cell phones. The equipment that computer hackers and scammers use is thermal scanners, printers, laptops, computers, cell phones, and printers.  The crimes that are committed are identity theft and fraud.  Also, another crime that is reported by victims is having their email accounts and homepages illegally used by these types of criminals.  For instance, on Moco-Space, there is a hacker who is using women’s profiles to talk to men.  This hacker is a man.  This hacker also uses short words and statements to confuse innocent people.  This hacker also tell lies whenever he/she states that; they have done something for the person they are talking to.  Most of the accounts and information is illegally transferred to their accounts.  There are also cloned accounts.  There are accounts that do not exist and it is really up to the people who are in charge of the website to check this information out for authenticity.