Is it True That the Borrower is Servant to the Lender?

By: Anthony Joseph Hopkins/ February 13, 2020

        Praise The Lord Saints!! Praise The Lord!!  How are all of you doing today?  Fine, I hope.  I have a very important question to ask all of you.  Is it true that the borrower is servant to the lender?  This is a very serious question that I would like to ask all of you personally because I have a student loan, and I am having a very difficult time paying it off.  The interest of my student loan is 8%.  I know that I did not have any business taking out another loan; just to attend college at the University of North Carolina at Charlotte.  I enrolled in college during the fall of 2003. 

           I borrowed the money in order to enroll at UNCC.  I was not eligible for any more grants that were available at the time.  Frankly, I was trying to acquire a second Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology and Social Work.  I understand that anytime that a person borrows money in any state, fashion or form, it is like being a slave all over again.  I really understand that I have to pay this money back in full.  However, I am very disappointed because the interest on my Jamison Loan is $80.00 dollars per month. 

Next, I want to inform all of you that it is true that the borrower is servant to the lender.  It might be a metaphor at the moment, but in reality, we have to pay off all of our debts.  It does not matter what they really are, we have to pay our debts.  I really understand that student loan debt is climbing each year.  I wish that I could have given the money back!!  I know that I only receive Social Security Disability right now.  I only earn $959.00 dollars per month right now.  I have over $850.00 dollars in bills each month.  I know that I have to pay my rent at the moment as well as life insurance, and other bills. 

Moreover, I have been going through financial hardships for the past 25 years now.  I will admit that the William and Fudge Collection Agency wants me to pay this loan off in full.  I have called this agency at their Rock Hill, South Carolina Office and they want me to pay at least $275.00 per month.  I have explained to them that I can only pay $50.00 per month.  I do not understand why these collection agencies are not willing to come to a complete compromise with me regarding my student loan.  I am only paying the interest instead of the principle amount.  This is a shame!! I guess I better go back to work just to pay this student loan.

        In Addition, there are people that I have allowed to borrow money from me, but they do not pay me back.  These people are called welshers right now.  To completely welsh, means to refuse to pay off your debts.  I have depleted my allotment when it comes to borrowing money from my life insurance right now.  I have asked William and Fudge Collection Agency can I pay the amount that I have agreed in the very beginning!!  I have to do what is absolutely necessary in order to pay off all of my debts.

Finally, I want to inform everyone that have debts to pay to make payment arrangements with all of your creditors in person.  When it comes to handling things over the telephone is pointless right now.  I have to get on my knees and pray to Jesus Christ to help me to pay off all of my debts.  Do you know that birds of a feather flock together?  This is a wise saying that people who are of certain status tend to affiliate with one another.  When it comes to socioeconomic status in the United States as well as other countries, the poor will always go through hell in life.  I also will admit that a person cannot establish a relationship with the opposite sex; if you are having hardships in any state, fashion, and form.

 This is serious because my ex-wife used me for my money at a period of time during our relationship.  She was buying street drugs with my money instead of paying bills for our residence.  There are some women and men who will completely drain you of all of your resources.  They do not care.  Some of the people that I was affiliated with were very apathetic.  This is the reason why I would like for everyone to please keep me in your prayers because I am physically, emotionally, mentally, and financially suffering right   

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I looked, and behold, a white horse, and he who sat on it had a bow; and a crown was given to him, and he went out conquering and to conquer.

Revelation 6:2(NASB)

Verse Thoughts

The wages of sin is death, and the only way for man to be saved is EITHER – to live a perfect, sinless life, OR – to accept God’s offer of salvation, for the forgiveness of sin, through Jesus Christ. The first way is impossible for sinful man, leaving only one way to be declared righteous by God and gain salvation – by grace through faith in Jesus.

There are NONE that are good! There are NONE that live a perfect, sinless life! NONE can keep every jot and tittle of God’s perfect Law, for ALL have sinned. ALL fall short of God’s glory because we are born sinners. ALL need a Saviour, and the price of everyman’s sin, from Adam onwards, was paid at Calvary’s Cross, such that whosoever believes on HIM, will not perish, but have everlasting life.

God’s offer of salvation, for the forgiveness of sin and life everlasting, is open to ALL. It is given as a free gift to all who believe. God’s gracious offer is open to everyone. No-one is excluded. Every man and woman has an opportunity to glorify God and believe in His only begotten Son. Those who believe are not condemned, but those who do not believe are condemned already, and will face the full force of God’s great anger and wrath, because of their unbelief in the only begotten Son of God.

Christians are not appointed to God’s wrath, because Christ took the punishment we deserve. Christians will not go into the Great Tribulation, which is the destiny of all who will not believe. Christians will be removed, at the Rapture – before God’s fury is poured out on a God-hating, Christ-rejecting, sinful world – at the start of the ‘Great and Terrible Day of the Lord’. And it will happen at God’s appointed time.

In HEAVEN, it will begin when the Lamb on the throne, takes the seven-sealed scroll from the hand of the Almighty, and breaks the first of seven seals. However, on earth, it will be triggered when the man of sin confirms a covenant with Israel, for one week of years – for 7 years – the 70th week of Daniel.

As the book of Revelation unfolds, we see John, the author of Revelation, raptured into heaven after delivering Christ’s letters to the seven churches. He was ordered to, “come up here”, where he saw the Ancient of Days surrounded by multitudes of angels, 4 living creatures, and 24 elders, worshipping before the throne. He watched as the Lamb took the scroll and began to unseal the first of the seven seals. This is the trigger point for the great and terrible Day of the Lord. “There was a noise like  thunder, and John heard one of the four beasts speak and say, ‘COME!'”

It was at this critical point, when John heard that command to ‘come’, that he looked and beheld a white horse. He noted that “the rider, on the white horse had a bow in his hand. He watched as a victor’s crown was given to him, and this rider went out conquering and to conquer.” A white horse generally signifies, peace, purity, and righteousness, but this rider will come impersonating Christ, the true Prince of Peace, Who also rides a white horse.

The rider John sees astride a white horse, is a satanic deceiver who gives the appearance of being a man of peace, when in reality, he is the prophesied man of lawlessness, whom Paul describes as “the son of perdition” – the son of Satan, who will deceive, and maim, and kill a multitude of men without number.

This man carries a bow, without any mention of arrows. This is done to lull an unsuspecting world into a false sense of peace and security. But his real motive is to go forth conquering and to conquer, for in his wake, there follows war, famine, pestilence, and death. The rider on the white horse is a trickster, giving the appearance of a man of peace who is going to usher in world safety and prosperity for all. However, when he rides onto the world scene, he will come as a victor, intent on conquering and controlling.

The crown on his head is not the royal diadem of a king. His crown is an imperial crown of a conquering dictator, which is to display hisd his mission to impose one-world totalitarian authority over the souls of the men he deceived. The mission of this satanic tyrant is not to bring peace to a weary, war-torn world but to kill and to maim, and to set his throne above God. 

He will attempt to make himself like the Most High God. He will enter the rebuilt Temple of God, and desecrate it with an abomination that causes desolation, as foretold by the prophets, Daniel. But HALLELUJAH – the Lord Jesus will destroy him with the breath of His mouth and will bring him to nothing with the brightness of His coming. Even so, come, Lord Jesus.

My Prayer

Heavenly Father, how I praise and thank You for your goodness and grace. I sing of Your wonderful love, and thank You for your never-failing mercy, holiness, tenderness, and grace towards each of Your children. Thank You, that we are not appointed to wrath, and I pray that many more would come to faith in Christ, before that great and terrible Day of the Lord. Fulfil Your plans and purposes I pray, and bring the enemy to nothing – so that Your glory may be seen in all the earth. I ask this in Jesus’ name, AMEN.

How come the internet is Satan’s Playground?

Let’s have a good look at this for a moment. What we mean by a playground is this? A playground consists of a very large space that is filled with equipment and activities for children to play inside of it. When it pertains to Satan we all have to be extremely careful. This playground can hinder us in various ways. For instance, it can prevent anyone from serving the Lord. 1st Thessalonians 2:18 in the New International Version says for we wanted to come to you-certainly, I Paul did again and again, but Satan blocked our way. This means that Satan prevents us from performing certain tasks for God.

He also keeps us from reading the Word of God, which is the sword of the spirit. Another way of looking at this playground that belongs to Satan is the way it causes billions of people to get addicted. A person can get easily captivated through the women who are online wearing certain apparel, or the music that we listen to on a daily basis. Some of it is demonic. For example, there are certain beats, lyrics, and tunes that easily captivate our minds and draw us into the music. There is an inner voice that communicates to each and every one of us. It is Satan using the internet as his playground. His purpose is to deceive the nations worldwide. The internet has been around for over 40 years.

The internet did not become available for public use until 1996. However, this major search engine and tool has changed so much over the past 20 years that it has caused millions of people to break up their marriages, relationships, and families. This is simply because of its graphic content that it contains. James 1:14-15 indicates that but each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. Then after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin and sin when it is full grown gives birth to death. This means that we must pay close attention to all of the things that we are doing behaviorally, psychologically, and socially, so that it pleases God.

It is not easy because we are in a constant battle with our flesh each and every single day. It is a war that is going on inside of the mind itself. Satan captures your mind and draws you completely away from what you are supposed to do for God. The Playground that I am talking about right now consists of not only the internet, but music, nightclubs, as well as other churches and occults. The internet is emphasized at this time because it is the main thing that people are using right now for research and entertainment.

There are more women online than men. There are more children between the ages of 12 to 30 online more than ever before. This is the main reason why parents need to start paying attention to the activities that each of their children is doing each day. James 1:21 says therefore get rid of all moral filth and evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you which can save you. This means that we must get rid of anything that contaminates our minds and accepts God’s word as a seed and allow it to grow inside of us. Also, we must get rid of anything that goes against God. Psalms 119:89 states that Your Word O Lord is eternal: it stands firm in the heavens. This means that God’s Word is the only thing that will remain on earth. The internet itself will dissolve just like the heavens and the earth. Technology is something that will not last forever. It is only a trend or fad. Trends and Fads are temporary and this is something that only last for a very short period of time.

This also includes the internet if it is a major problem for you. The internet as a playground is very serious. It is technology, which is true. Matthew 24:35 says that heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will never pass away. Jesus told His disciples this information while He was reading the End of Times. Jesus also told his disciples in Mark 13th chapter to watch because you do not know when the world will come to an end. Watch therefore watch!! Satan’s playground consists of many places. These places where Satan is deceiving the nations are everywhere. The internet itself is propaganda that is either positive or negative. The internet is also filled with images that are capable of causing the conscious to erode.
Therefore, causing billions to become addicted and there is no way out of it. This addiction is just as bad as smoking cigarettes. How come the internet is Satan’s playground? This is a very good question because there are things that go on regularly that causes everyone to panic. This is especially when there are hacking incidents that are going on worldwide. This is a major threat to national security. We are have to realize that this is very serious and we have to pay attention to what is going on around us through the use of our eyes and the rest of our 5 senses.

How come the internet is Satan’s Playground?

Let’s have a good look at this for a moment. What we mean by a playground is this? A playground consists of a very large space that is filled with equipment and activities for children to play inside of it. When it pertains to Satan we all have to be extremely careful. This playground can hinder us in various ways. For instance, it can prevent anyone from serving the Lord. 1st Thessalonians 2:18 in the New International Version says for we wanted to come to you-certainly, I Paul did again and again, but Satan blocked our way. This means that Satan prevents us from performing certain tasks for God.

He also keeps us from reading the Word of God, which is the sword of the spirit. Another way of looking at this playground that belongs to Satan is the way it causes billions of people to get addicted. A person can get easily captivated through the women who are online wearing certain apparel, or the music that we listen to on a daily basis. Some of it is demonic. For example, there are certain beats, lyrics, and tunes that easily captivate our minds and draw us into the music. There is an inner voice that communicates to each and every one of us. It is Satan using the internet as his playground. His purpose is to deceive the nations worldwide. The internet has been around for over 40 years.

The internet did not become available for public use until 1996. However, this major search engine and tool has changed so much over the past 20 years that it has caused millions of people to break up their marriages, relationships, and families. This is simply because of its graphic content that it contains. James 1:14-15 indicates that but each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. Then after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin and sin when it is full grown gives birth to death. This means that we must pay close attention to all of the things that we are doing behaviorally, psychologically, and socially, so that it pleases God.

It is not easy because we are in a constant battle with our flesh each and every single day. It is a war that is going on inside of the mind itself. Satan captures your mind and draws you completely away from what you are supposed to do for God. The Playground that I am talking about right now consists of not only the internet, but music, nightclubs, as well as other churches and occults. The internet is emphasized at this time because it is the main thing that people are using right now for research and entertainment.

There are more women online than men. There are more children between the ages of 12 to 30 online more than ever before. This is the main reason why parents need to start paying attention to the activities that each of their children is doing each day. James 1:21 says therefore get rid of all moral filth and evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you which can save you. This means that we must get rid of anything that contaminates our minds and accepts God’s word as a seed and allow it to grow inside of us. Also, we must get rid of anything that goes against God. Psalms 119:89 states that Your Word O Lord is eternal: it stands firm in the heavens. This means that God’s Word is the only thing that will remain on earth. The internet itself will dissolve just like the heavens and the earth. Technology is something that will not last forever. It is only a trend or fad. Trends and Fads are temporary and this is something that only last for a very short period of time.

This also includes the internet if it is a major problem for you. The internet as a playground is very serious. It is technology, which is true. Matthew 24:35 says that heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will never pass away. Jesus told His disciples this information while He was reading the End of Times. Jesus also told his disciples in Mark 13th chapter to watch because you do not know when the world will come to an end. Watch therefore watch!! Satan’s playground consists of many places. These places where Satan is deceiving the nations are everywhere. The internet itself is propaganda that is either positive or negative. The internet is also filled with images that are capable of causing the conscious to erode.
Therefore, causing billions to become addicted and there is no way out of it. This addiction is just as bad as smoking cigarettes. How come the internet is Satan’s playground? This is a very good question because there are things that go on regularly that causes everyone to panic. This is especially when there are hacking incidents that are going on worldwide. This is a major threat to national security. We are have to realize that this is very serious and we have to pay attention to what is going on around us through the use of our eyes and the rest of our 5 senses.

Dear God, I will always be in awe when I think of how great your love for me, and everyone in this world, is. We weren’t anywhere close to righteous when you sent your Son, Jesus Christ, to die for us; but that did not stop you. Lord, I will always set my heart on loving you, ever grateful that you loved me first. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen.

What is forgiveness?

The definition of forgive means to excuse for a fault or an offense: pardon. 2. To renounce anger or resentment against. 3. To absolve from payment of (a debt for example). Forgiveness is very important because it enable all of us to do things God’s way. When we forgive the next person, this really takes a whole lot of work. It is not very easy forgiving every one of their actions. This means we have to learn a brand new behavior. This behavior itself takes a lot of practice and patience. For example, I know that I have a lot of enemies from my past and present. I also realize that in order to go straight to heaven, I have to pardon a whole lot of people from what they have done to me. This also leads to anger and resentment; this means that I have to let go of my anger and resentments that I have towards other people. I have to exonerate a lot of my family members and people that I used to have as friends; who have turned their backs on me.

Matthew 18:21-22 says Peter asked Jesus how many times we must forgive our brother up to seven times. Jesus said up to seven times seventy. This means that I must continue to forgive as long as I live on earth. I must continue to forgive my brother or anyone. This is very important if I want to go to heaven. I have to continue to forgive my brothers and sisters as well as other people if I want to go directly to heaven. Colossians 3:13 says bearing with one another and if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other, as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. This is extremely important because when it comes to forgiveness, it is vital and necessary that we forgive each other. No matter what the offense consists of, we must learn to forgive. Forgiveness takes a lot of work because there are a lot of angry people in this world. The people inside of this world are angry with each other.

This anger must be dissolved before we go straight to heaven. This is definitely not a laughing matter. This is very serious!!! Isaiah 43:25 say I, even I am He who blots out your transgressions for my own sake, and remember your sins no more. This means that God will remove all of your sins from His sight and remember them no more. It is God who justifies and it is God who judges the sins of the world. We must remember one thing that God is able and willing to remove our sins and man cannot do the things that God can. If any man thinks for himself that he can justify in the same way as God; then he is fooling himself. I know that a lot of people will be in serious trouble.

Galatians 6:1-2 says brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently; but watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted. This means that we must restore everyone who is in sin. This must be done in meekness, patience, understanding, meticulous action, and eagerness. This is something that must be done out of kindness and gentleness. Please be very careful, because you can also be tempted in the same exact way. Forgiveness is a two way street. It is something that must be done to appease the Living God. Proverbs 16:32 says better a patient person than a warrior one with self control than one who takes a city. This means that a person must exercise patience and self-control at all times.

Instead of arguing with everyone everywhere you go, it will be best that you do things according to the Word of the Living God. This is serious because God does not want us to be angry with every one that we encounter. God wants all of us to do things gently and carefully. James 4:10 says humble yourselves before the Lord and he will lift you up. This means that as long as we humble ourselves around our Living God, He shall lift us up. This also means that as long as we continue to live according to God’s word, He shall lift us up in due time. James 5:9 says do not grumble against one another brothers and sisters or you will be judged. The Judge is standing at the door.

This means that we have to keep our mouths shut at times especially when it comes to judging one another. If we are not able to assist anyone in any capacity, then we must be able to pass it on to someone who is qualified to deal with an issue. We also must be very careful because the things that we do for another person, God is judging us all of the time. God is always standing at the door of Judgment. This is very serious to all of us. James 5:19-20 says my brother and sisters, if one of you should wander from the truth and someone should bring that person back, remember this: whoever turns a sinner from the error of their way; will save them from death and cover over a multitude of sins. This means that we must live right all of the time. This also means that if we see someone in a transgression, we must save them. While doing so, we will be covering over a multitude of sins.

Most of your computer hackers and scammers ask questions to others when they are online. For instance, if a computer hacker or scammer ask you what time is it in the day, this means that they are located in another city, state, or country. It is very important for everyone to pay attention to what the computer hackers and scammers are asking you. This is because they are trying to devise a scheme or plan to obtain some information or money from you. What most hackers and scammers are using right now are credit cards from other victims. What they usually asked another person or victim to do is for their credit card information and they will take advantage of you. In most cases, the victim will be charged with credit card fraud. This is because the hacker or scammer has gained someone else’s information illegally and without their consent or knowledge. It is very important not to give another person that you are online with your personal information. Never leave your phone number, physical address, and anything that a computer hacker, scammer, or data thief can gain access to it. Never give your personal information to someone that you do not know. A computer hacker asked me this afternoon 1/25/2013 what time is it where I was located. It baffled me because most of your hackers and scammers are overseas. They also greeted me Good Morning and they also asked me whether or not it was morning where I lived. I told them no!! This is extremely unusual because most computer hackers and scammers that are on certain websites know exactly what time it is. Another thing that computer hackers, scammers, and data thieves can do is change information while a person is on the website. This is also very suspicious as well. Whenever a person’s profile changes while you are examining it, this means that there is a likelihood that the profile is hacked. Another thing is that a computer hacker, scammer, or data thief can revise your profile without you even knowing it. They can add or delete information without you even knowing it. It is extremely important for everyone to please examine their profile very carefully. It is important that you know the person that you are talking to; so that you can be reassured. Always examine and check your profile each day that you are online to make sure that everything is right where you left it. Accuracy is important!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Phishing

The Oxford pocket dictionary defines phishing as the activity of defrauding an online account holder of financial information by posing as a legitimate company. This is what phishing is known for now in today’s internet driven world but it was not always the case. Phishing actually predates computers. Some people did it over the phone for years and they called it social engineering.

So why would someone think of phishing some one? There is a simple reason: to exploit people. These people are commonly known as scam artists. What these phishers normally do is send out millions of scam emails posing as something or someone who they are not. Normally they hope for a few people who received the email to respond to them by clicking the fake website and provide them with financial and or personal information. Also, anyone who has an email address is at risk of being phished. People can increase their risk of being targeted if their email is posted on a forum or website. The people phishing can also get many more email addresses by using a spider. A spider is something that searches through many websites and saves an innumerable number of email addresses, every one it can find. So in a nut shell, phishing is very profitable for criminals because, they can attain millions of email addresses and potentially set them up for an attack at relatively no cost to themselves (Beal, 2006).

There are some key factors and elements that one needs to help recognize if they are being phished. This scam often has three key elements or factors that will come about when someone is planning an attack. First, when checking your email and look to see who the email is sent from. It will often be from a legitimate company’s address. If the email address looks suspicious then be wary, but this is an easy obstacle for phishers to climb over. It is very quick and easy for someone to change the “from field” in most email clients to trick the person receiving the emails. Second, the email almost always will contain very similar images or logos that have been copied off of the real company’s website. Third, upon opening the email, it will have a link along with text saying you should click the following link to make sure the personal information is correct. When trying to determine if you are part of a phishing experiment, there are many little things you might want to notice. These include spelling errors, unknown email addresses in text, and often the email headers can have absolutely nothing to do with the company that the email implies to the recipient (Beal, 2006).
Being aware of phishing is an important concept people should try to understand. First of all, you do not need to click the text or URL that is stated in the email. If you see a suspicious email, you should delete the email promptly. After deleting the email from your inbox, you should delete your trash can as well. Often you can block the email addresses that are sending you these risky emails. If the message or email looks very legitimate you still need to remember to never click the link or URL in the email. To make sure you are going to the website you anticipated, you should open up your web browser and type in the website manually. Then proceed to type in your personal information on the legitimate website (Beal, 2006).
It is very important to know what to do if you do find a suspicious email that is targeting you to be phished. First, you should notify the company that there are suspicious emails in regard to their company. Often companies will want to know if anyone is using this “phishing” technique with their company’s name. Also, if you find a phishing email you should report the phishing to the Federal Trade Commission. Many local police and investigators also take care and deal with internet phishing (Beal, 2006).
Now that phishing is becoming more common, criminals and scam artists are finding newer ways of targeting innocent people. A new, but becoming more common way of targeting people is the use of phishing and malware combined. Malware makes it where someone has control of the computer being targeted. Social engineering is often a very big part malware. So how does someone get control using malware? People can get control by attaching harmful attachments through emails. In the end, the user of the computer will execute a harmful file or software, and then from there, many different things can be downloaded. Even something as simple as accepting a license agreement can easily download and install malware. There is however a very slow and sometimes pain taking processes of sorting through the megabytes of data that have been collected in this form of attaining information. By combining malware with phishing, much vulnerability exists. The vulnerabilities can turn into things such as worms, viruses, and getting personal information. People often do not realize the effect of malware and phishing and what it can turn into.

Men, Women, & Communication

The differences between men & women when it comes to communication are that men are apt to resolve problems quickly and women are more prone to solutions through direct concessions. These concessions are done through compromise. It might take a while to come to a compromise with women. This is because some men cannot be trusted. Men tend to evade the truth by looking directly away from women when they are confronted. When women look at men directly inside of their eyes, this is an indication that a woman is looking for a man to tell her the truth.
This is direct communication and it is face to face. I am the type of man who will look directly inside of anyone’s face while I am talking to them. A woman of any type does not have to worry about me hiding anything from her. I am the type of person who will reveal anything to anyone at anytime. Some people who refuse to acknowledge the truth will become quarrel minded, and become confrontational. This is because they are afraid of being confronted about their own active issues. In a relationship, it is very important to reveal the truth to your spouse or significant other in a relationship of any type.

If your relationship is one that pertains to cohabitation or a traditional marriage, then communication is very important. Men and women are supposed to learn how to listen and listen with the fullest intent of understanding the other person. I am a person who will take time out of my busy day to listen to the concerns of others. No matter what I am doing in my life, when it comes to a relationship, I know that good communication is the key to a successful relationship. Men must learn how to listen to women. Women must learn how to listen to men as well. Therefore, it is important to understand the other person.

Men and women are totally different when it comes to communication. This is because women are more social than men in the first place. Women are more inclined to communicate for the sole purpose of establishing relationships and gaining a sense of a common ground. When this is established, then a woman will be content in her social awareness and she will gain a sense of trust with others as long as trust and understanding has been complete and established with that person that she is in contact with. Men on the other hand establish relationships differently. Men tend to establish relationships through communication with a specified purpose. This is not a competitive thing; it is about establishing contacts with the opposite sex to the point that it becomes a mission for him.

Perhaps in some cases men just wanted to have a relationship without boundaries. A relationship without boundaries and limitations when it pertains to women is so shallow minded. I mean that men just want to try to do something to the point that it is like a lion searching for food. I am not saying that all men are like this. Their intentions and expectations change according to time. Women are intellectual beings!!!! Women who are intellectual beings will see right through a man’s plot to try to conquer her quickly that a man’s skin will curl up like a potato bug.
This is because some men become target minded. What I mean by this is that men will only fulfill a quest to conquer women without establishing a commitment. Women want a sense of commitment with a man in the first place. I can understand this because this is what I want for myself with a real woman. I want to establish a commitment, but a legitimate friendship first. By establishing a friendship with a real woman, you are trying to understand her from the inside out. You are becoming honest in your efforts to have a relationship without violating her privacy. Women deserve respect to the utmost.

Remember men of the world, a woman is not a piece of meat or a spoonful of sugar. They deserve love, honesty, dignity, respect, and they also need to be treated like decent human beings. They are our auxiliaries’ men okay!!! Remember it is a woman who brings life into the world but only through your assistance okay. You must learn how to treat them with respect. If you love and respect your own mother, then you will learn how to treat a real woman with respect. It is about love, truth, honesty, and respect when it comes to having a successful relationship. Always remember that good communication is the key to having a successful relationship. I am an advocate when it comes to the truth.

The older you get the wiser and intelligent you become. This comes with maturity and experience. Experience is the best teacher!!!!!!!!!!! Learning how to listen to another person and respect that person as a member of the human race is very important. If you are a living soul, then you are blessed each day as a child of God. As a child of God, you must learn how to love, honor, cherish, respect and tell the truth to others

Expectations & Human Relationships

This is a report concerning the expectations when it pertains to human relationships. First, we must ask ourselves a question. What are expectations when it pertains to human relationships? Human Relationships consists of communication both direct and indirect. This means nonverbal and verbal communication as well as association. When we are in close contact with each other, we are learning what the other person is like. We are learning their habits, personality, as well as the way they conduct themselves around others. It does not matter whether these people are in our family or on the street. The best ways to communicate with anyone is by introducing yourself to another person and see what kind of response you will receive. Second, another way of communicating to others is by letter or online. Although this is classified as maintaining a false relationship or a pen-pal, but sometimes this leads into a relationship that is direct eventually, if things turn out positive. However, in most cases, people get hurt because the other person’s expectations are different than yours.

What do we mean by expectations? Let’s look at what is the definition of an expectation. An expectation is a goal or a set standard that is derived from the behavior of people. Our expectations when it pertains to human relationships are to make sure that we are honest and truthful to the best of our ability. When we are honest and truthful to another person, we are doing God’s work. If we are content with our own actions, why worry. I am a person who does not worry what others think about me. It is God who has the final word. Man can make an opinion and this is it. Man cannot tell me what to do when I am an adult. I am supposed to love and respect my parents as well as my elders.
When it comes to people, I am supposed to love them as well. I am also supposed to exercise and use discretion at all times. My expectations when it comes to human relationships are to do my very best to assist the other person. This is by showing them that I can love them for the person that they are without hurting them in any way. I try my very best each day not to damage others no matter where they come from. No matter what their socio-economic background consists of, I am supposed to respect you. Life itself is really what you make of it. Learning how to respect others instead of hurting them because of what they have or do not have. It is not all about what possessions that you have as a person. It is all about how others receive you as a member of the human race.
You know that another person can disrespect you by calling you names that can damage you, but as long as you are breathing and living, you must still stand strong. Never allow the shallow expectations of others to cause you to crumble. Standing up for yourself and making a direct stand in your own life, makes you strong as a person. We all have rights as United States Citizens and we must use these rights to stand up for ourselves in a very positive way. We must learn to be proactive rather than reactive. Your expectations are just yours.

They cannot be transferred to another person unless they are your children. Your children alone are supposed to listen to their parents. Adults on the other hand have choices. This comes when we are selecting a significant other or a spouse in our lives. I cannot tell you to marry me and demand it. I can only persuade you. I can make a statement and ask you in a very nice way about marriage. This is your choice alone. I have made numerous of good and bad choices in my life. I cannot allow the choices that I have made in my own past to slow down my progress. My goals and expectations as a member of the human race are to become successful as a God Fearing Man.

I know that I must make good choices and my expectations when it comes to human relationships are to become spouse or significant other for that special female in my life. God will bless me with that special female who is a God Fearing Woman who has special qualities. She is that diamond that shines as soon as it has emerged from the ground. This diamond I will cherish forever. I will do everything in my power to keep this diamond in my possession for the rest of my entire existence. A solid Gold Bouillon is the same exact way. The way I personally feel from the inside out, is that I want a female who shares the same ideas just like me.

I like to converse with her on a daily basis and share about my entire day. There are player hating men out there who just do not want the next man to have a good African American woman. I am telling you the truth. Men are so jealous of each other that they need to mind their own business. This is a big problem in the African American Community, this is called jealousy. Men have always been jealous of the other and this is causing an outrage in our community when it comes to women. This is the reason why African

Next, younger people and their attitude have changed tremendously since 1980. The reason for this change is because parents have changed their attitudes when it comes to rearing their own children. Parents are calling their children their friends rather than their children themselves. This is simply because the city, state, and federal government have intervened in the relationship between families. The government is telling parents how to raise their own children. Parents are not allowed to punish their children as they wish. This is the reason why children are growing up without any sense of direction, guidance, understanding, and affection from their own parents. This is a subject that should be addressed by everyone who has children as well as those who do not have any children of their own. Like they say, it takes a village to raise one child. This is true! In most cases, parents are not listening to their own children and addressing their needs. When it comes to young people and older ones, it would be easy if we all can get along while we are living inside of a community.

I wrote about this topic because our young people do not have any respect for elders. They use a great deal of profanity and they are very apathetic. This has changed a lot since the 1980s. Television has changed a lot of our attitudes and there are too many reality shows that pertain to the lives of others. There is a reality television show that pertains to everything in our personal lives. I would not want anything that I am doing in my personal life to be on television. A lot of young people are watching reality shows rather than take out the garbage at home. There are at least 2 billion people between the ages of 13-40 who would rather watch television all day long rather than do their homework from school or college.

The issue that I have with young people today is that; most of them do not have any respect for themselves or anyone else. What these young people do not know is that the world that we are living in is getting ready to come to an end. Mark 13:37 says and what I say unto you, I say unto all watch. This means that we have to really watch and pay attention to what is going on all around us. We must get our lives right with God. This is very serious because if the world comes to an end, at least a person would like to have their life right with God. The son of man is coming down from heaven and it is a very serious event.

As far as those who are older are concerned, we must continue to share the good news of God to everyone whether they are young or old. It is very important that we share about what God has done for us in our personal lives and make certain that we are on the right track with God. The issues that I am talking about concerning young people are getting involved in church related activities, reading God’s Word, staying out of trouble, avoiding street gangs, and do not defile your own temple. This means that we should not do anything that would damage the body of Christ. In the book of 1st Corinthians 3rd chapter and 16th verse it indicates that we are the temple of God. It says know ye not that you are the temple of God and the spirit of God dwells inside of you? We are the temple of the living God. This is the reason why younger people as well as those who are old will have to understand this.