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You Passed! You have an amazing memory and vocabulary!

Amazing! You fit into 3% of the population that can get a perfect score on this test! (And it’s not easy). You have a sharp memory and a brilliant talent for words. You are a keen academic and love reading and learning new things. You are excellent with people because you remember every person you meet and the stories that come along with them. You’re intelligent, but also creative. With such a sponge for a brain and such an articulate mind, you will go far!

Lord Jesus, please accept me as I am!

Working and living the 12 steps i a a full time job by itself.  I have been clean and sober for 35 years now.  I owe it all to God and His Son Jesus Christ as well as the AA Fellowship and a supporting cast of people who I have been in close contact with throughout my AA journey.  I want to thank the people worldwide from their prayers and support.  I also want to thank all of my AA Sponsors for bearing with me as a person.  I want to thank all of my therapists throughout the years for tolerating my behavior as well.  I want to thank all of my male and female friends worldwide for putting up with me as well.  Therefore, it has been an emotional roller-coaster of bearing with someone whose behavior have changed for the better right now.  I want to inform everyone that my biggest problem is Anthony Joseph Hopkins myself.  The only thing that I can say is please pray for me as a person.  This is simply because I am in need of prayers from everyone worldwide right now.  I would like to thank all of my family right for their empathy and understanding especially when it comes to loving and supporting a grateful recovering alcoholic like me.  It is not very easy tolerating someone who is an alcoholic and addict, but if they want what the self help fellowships has to offer them; then there is hope for them ad well as those people who really want a new way of life.

I would like to inform everyone to please repent and get your life right.  At least give God a chance to work miracles in your life 🙏 ✨️ 

How to Talk, Listen, and to Understand Women!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is a very special blog on the importance of learning how to listen, talk, and to understand women. First, it is very important to understand that women are a creation of God Himself. Her creation is derived from the womb of man; who is named Adam. A rib of man was removed while he slept and afterwards his female counterpart was right directly in front of his face. Her name was Eve because she is an auxiliary for man. This meaning his counterpart or companion while joining him on earth. A woman is unique as a species because she is the bearer of children and she is very intelligent.

Second, in an institution of marriage, a man is supposed to leave his own parents home and join his wife and live with her inside of a house of their own. This is the institution of marriage. However, in contemporary times, women do not bear the last name of their own husbands. This is done for personal reasons. In some cases, this has a lot to do with pre-nuptial agreements that has been made prior to marriage. Also, in some cases, this has a lot to do with assets and information that couples cannot gain access to throughout the marriage.

Third, let’s get to the lesson of learning how to communicate with women. As children, a little boy is supposed to learn how to respect his own mother. This is first and foremost. This is by making sure that he is able to say yes madam and no madam to his own mother to begin with. In retrospect, he is also supposed to learn how to respect his elders. This means that he is supposed to respect those who are older than him. When it pertains to women, a boy or a man is supposed to stop whatever he is doing at the moment and go directly to women. This is a respect factor. By doing this a boy, girl, man, or another woman is supposed to pay attention to what she is saying to you.

Fourth, women deserve respect simply because they are emotional creatures just like men. It’s that men deny or in most cases refuse to acknowledge their personal feelings. Nor even recognize their sensitive side at times. There are times that disagreements might occur, but it is very important to learn to listen to both sides of any disagreement. The primary purpose of learning to talk, listen, and to understand women is to improve communication skills and to learn how to become active listeners in all situations.

Fifth, listening is very important because it is a key to communication. How come listening is a very important key to good communication skills? The answer is that when a message is relayed or an oral exchanged takes place, it’s very important to understand what is being said at all times. If someone is telling me something, I am supposed to listen with my ears the message and if necessary tell them what they have said; so that I can fully comprehend the message. I know in my case, I would write all of my notes on paper and clipboard so that I can fully understand what is being expressed to me personally.
Expression is the next because it takes a very good communicator to send a great message. When it comes to listening and communication skills, it is very important to eliminate all of the distractions that are in your way in order to understand what is being expressed. When it comes to women, men really need to turn the television off and look directly at women while they are speaking to them. Men and little boys are guilty at times of trying to tune women out. How come this happen on a daily basis, this is because men and boys tend to become obtuse and reluctant to listening at certain times at women. Men and boys usually think they are superior to their female counterparts.

Sixth, how do we really learn how to talk, listen, and understand women? The answer is by learning how to pay attention to what is right in front of you. At least mankind is supposed be allowed and be entitled to their freedom of speech. Listening is very easy for some and difficult for others. Why is this problem for others? This is because of the breakdown in communication that had taken place prior to full communication itself. This is caused by a lack of understanding of people as a member of the human race. Understanding others come from spending time with members of your own family.

This begins by understanding your own family dynamics as well as yourself as a person. Understanding of a woman is very easy. This starts off by acknowledging the person who had brought you into this world first. This is God and your own mother. When a man learns to respect his own mother, grandmother, aunt, or elders that are women, then he learns to respect women as a full member of the human race. When a man is around women, he is not supposed to use vulgarity and course language on a regular basis. When this happens, it breaks communications down and it makes things very difficult for men to relate well with women.