Were ready to ask God to remove our defects of character Step 6

Step 6 is a separation of people from themselves and others.  When it comes to this step, we will have to prepare to let go of everything that is completely bothering us.  Step 6 is like a mania, which is an object of excessive madness.  Therefore, we must ask God to remove the madness in your life.  Character defects are called sins.  

God begins to work in our lives.  Our foundation has to be prepared for our situations.  These defects of character hurt us.  They have also delayed us.  Read Romans 7:14-25.  This is called struggling with sin.  Defects are the absence of something necessary or useful toward perfection.  Read Genesis 1:31 and Isaiah 59:2.  Character is its features and qualities that set you apart from others, such as unbelievers.  Your character is what people know you by.  It distinguishes who you are.

Next, I am asking God to remove all of these undesirable traits.  Deeply ingrained patterns of behavior; which are called habits.  A habit is a behavioral pattern that has been done numerous of times.  This means that you have done it for an extended period of time.  When it comes to generational curses, which are roots and branches are messed up through families.  This is a cycle.  They will not vanish overnight.  We must be intentional in our own behavior with God.

God’s righteousness is credited to me.  Through the power of the Holy Ghost sanctification takes place.  Read Colossians 1:13.  We begin to find a peace of joy, myself.  People begin to say that I remember when.  Replace all of our defects of character with good intentions.  God will make your life better.

  Read Luke 6:19.  This is when power was coming from Him.  Jesus Christ was healing everyone that came to Him.  Read 2nd Corinthians 5:17.  A complete transformation of our life is done through the power of the Holy Ghost. We begin to ask God to bind up our evil speaking, pride, and bad spirits.  Read Ephesians 1:21.  He is far above all principalities, powers right now and in the world to come.  Read Galatians 5:22-23 and 2nd Corinthians 5:18-20.  Read Ephesians 2:13.  A lack of power was my dilemma.  Trade our character defects for Godly character.  We are ambassadors of Jesus Christ.  A tradition is something that is passed down.  Read 1st John 2:23.  Whoever has acknowledged the Father has acknowledged the Son also.  Read Titus 2:14.  Character defects are sins.

Read Ezekiel 36:26-27.  The new life that we reach in Jesus Christ, we become a brand new person.  Read 2nd Corinthians  4:3-4.  This is called Spiritual Blindness.  We must be willing to trade in our filthy mouth, cheating, porn, dishonesty, immorality, and our broken down self.  Read 2nd Corinthians 2:10.  This is the model of me.  God is putting the pieces together.  Friendships are restored as well as favor from estrangement.  

1.Reconciliation with God

2.Pardon is excuse of an offense without penalty.  It is an official release from punishment.  The offender is release custody.  Read Psalms 103:12.

Life and Communication

Life and Communication is very simple. What are we talking about here? Let’s start off by asking ourselves a very important question. What is life and how it relates to communication? Life is what you really make of things while you are living in the present. Life is your existence that you possess. The air that you breathe as well as flesh that you have. Communication is the language that you speak consisting of dialects as well as methods of words that one use to speak. Your voice that comes from your mouth is used as a means of communication itself.

Life and Communication are intertwined. They are go hand in hand. A communication and human relationship is used when men, women, and children share experiences about their lives to each other that make sense. Men, women, and children speak to each other as a means of sending and delivering messages to one another. When it pertains to this subject, our lives are shaped by the way we conduct ourselves others. It is our personality, disposition, and characteristics that we have that makes others either like or dislike you as a person. Life and Communication is not always easy. It is how you live your life that makes you successful inside of your environment or more apt towards failures. It is not always easy to think that you can obtain everything all in one day.

You will not obtain all that you need in one day. These things take time. All of these things that people who are possessive tend to hold onto their possessions and past will slowly lose it quickly. When one is possessive, they tend to become selfish in their own way. Men have a tendency to become this way especially when they want control and they are afraid of losing something that was already obtained. Men and women share these characteristics when it comes to possessiveness. Women on the other hand, tend to become possessive when it pertains to resources and finances. When it comes to material things, at least some of them, women are apprehensive of losing them very suddenly.

There are some who are reluctant to change their names when they are married. Marriage is not the end of the world ladies. It is a lifetime commitment between your spouse and significant other. Cohabitation on the other hand is a trial period in a relationship between a man and a woman. It is a feeling out process and an evaluation of one another in a relationship. This is done by direct and indirect observation. This is also a decision making process to determine if a man or a woman will be willing to share the rest of their lives with the person that they are living with.
Are you willing to spend the rest of your life with the person that you are cohabitating with? This is a very good question for men and women to ask each other while they are involved in their relationships. Traditional marriage is very serious. This is a lifelong decision that sometimes leads to hardship if a person makes a bad decision while they are cohabitating with their spouse or significant other. All couples will have some good and bad times. It is how you make the best of things through those good and bad times.

Life and Communication is splendid if you have the basis already established beforehand. You will have to examine all of your own resources first before you are able to get involved in any relationship with another person. It also starts off by being honest with each other from the onset. Telling the truth about yourself to another person is a good way of establishing better communication skills with that person that you are willing to share your life with. Always remember that deception inside of a relationship leads to failure. A relationship without trust and honesty from the very beginning leads to trouble.

Men and women must always share the truth to each other no matter what happens in their relationships with each other. Life and Communication also pertains to complete families. This is also shared with children so that they will have a basis to follow in their adult life. When children understand certain concepts about telling the truth and not hiding from others, this will help them to improve in their communication skills with others. Children who are productive and honest have successful lives. This comes from being involved in a healthy family who has healthy relationships.
This comes from learning how to speak to each other in pleasant ways. This also comes from learning how to become honest and truthful. Conflict of Interest comes from those who tend to deny or refuse the existence of others. This comes from anyone who has children or relationships with others and denies it from the very start. A conflict of interest can also come from an interest that is taken out of context. This pertains to businesses and partnerships that are established by others who make agreements and do not keep them. A technicality is something that is meaningful and relevant only in principle.

These criminals are very, very, sneaky, and devious. They are also computer savvy. There are millions of women’s profiles that are cut and pasted each day by computer hackers, scammers, and data thieves. What makes everyone very sad is that these criminals are very hard to catch. It takes a member of law enforcement, who works in cyber crimes to catch these types of criminals. There are cyber criminals who are just as savvy as members of law enforcement. They also have the latest gadgets that law enforcement is using each day to try to curtail this type of crime. Cyber criminals have a tendency to only focus on account information of their victims. This type of criminal focuses on information pertaining to bank accounts, payroll information, as well as social security numbers of people who are online.

This is a type of criminal who is a white collar criminal and this individual is capable of wiping out all of your money in your bank account. Cyber Criminals are usually come from middle class homes and they possess computers and laptops as well as a smart phone in their pocket. These criminals have a printer, as well as a fax machine and scanner. Cyber criminals are very smooth talking people and they usually collect information from databases very easy. This is a criminal who is usually someone from any ethnic background and they have computer jobs in the past. This is an individual who is really computer savvy and is always eager to stay active online.

Cyber criminals are located anywhere worldwide. They are always busy 24 hours per day online. These criminals remind us of a snake. A snake usually warns an average person by hissing. This means to stay away from me. A cyber criminal is the same exact way. The difference is that a criminal of this magnitude is online anywhere and they are always active at night. Between the hours of 12:00am -8:00am is when they are usually their busiest. It really has a lot to do with time. If the time is different than it is in the United States, then most of the criminals are active.
For example, in Africa it is a 7 to 8 hour time difference when it comes to USA time. In other countries it is an 8 to 14 hour time difference. Computer criminals are active all over the entire globe. There are other countries that are active than others. Most of these criminals are college educated and they have at least a graduate degree in computer science. There are criminals who are younger than 18 years old who illegally gain access information about other people by hacking and tampering with their records. This is done by illegally intercepting usernames and passwords of officials or others who are employed at a school or facility. Cyber criminals are very bright individuals. They have an above average IQ. These criminals as well as scammers know how to use computer programs.

Expectations & Human Relationships

This is a report concerning the expectations when it pertains to human relationships. First, we must ask ourselves a question. What are expectations when it pertains to human relationships? Human Relationships consists of communication both direct and indirect. This means nonverbal and verbal communication as well as association. When we are in close contact with each other, we are learning what the other person is like. We are learning their habits, personality, as well as the way they conduct themselves around others. It does not matter whether these people are in our family or on the street. The best ways to communicate with anyone is by introducing yourself to another person and see what kind of response you will receive. Second, another way of communicating to others is by letter or online. Although this is classified as maintaining a false relationship or a pen-pal, but sometimes this leads into a relationship that is direct eventually, if things turn out positive. However, in most cases, people get hurt because the other person’s expectations are different than yours.

What do we mean by expectations? Let’s look at what is the definition of an expectation. An expectation is a goal or a set standard that is derived from the behavior of people. Our expectations when it pertains to human relationships are to make sure that we are honest and truthful to the best of our ability. When we are honest and truthful to another person, we are doing God’s work. If we are content with our own actions, why worry. I am a person who does not worry what others think about me. It is God who has the final word. Man can make an opinion and this is it. Man cannot tell me what to do when I am an adult. I am supposed to love and respect my parents as well as my elders.
When it comes to people, I am supposed to love them as well. I am also supposed to exercise and use discretion at all times. My expectations when it comes to human relationships are to do my very best to assist the other person. This is by showing them that I can love them for the person that they are without hurting them in any way. I try my very best each day not to damage others no matter where they come from. No matter what their socio-economic background consists of, I am supposed to respect you. Life itself is really what you make of it. Learning how to respect others instead of hurting them because of what they have or do not have. It is not all about what possessions that you have as a person. It is all about how others receive you as a member of the human race.
You know that another person can disrespect you by calling you names that can damage you, but as long as you are breathing and living, you must still stand strong. Never allow the shallow expectations of others to cause you to crumble. Standing up for yourself and making a direct stand in your own life, makes you strong as a person. We all have rights as United States Citizens and we must use these rights to stand up for ourselves in a very positive way. We must learn to be proactive rather than reactive. Your expectations are just yours.

They cannot be transferred to another person unless they are your children. Your children alone are supposed to listen to their parents. Adults on the other hand have choices. This comes when we are selecting a significant other or a spouse in our lives. I cannot tell you to marry me and demand it. I can only persuade you. I can make a statement and ask you in a very nice way about marriage. This is your choice alone. I have made numerous of good and bad choices in my life. I cannot allow the choices that I have made in my own past to slow down my progress. My goals and expectations as a member of the human race are to become successful as a God Fearing Man.

I know that I must make good choices and my expectations when it comes to human relationships are to become spouse or significant other for that special female in my life. God will bless me with that special female who is a God Fearing Woman who has special qualities. She is that diamond that shines as soon as it has emerged from the ground. This diamond I will cherish forever. I will do everything in my power to keep this diamond in my possession for the rest of my entire existence. A solid Gold Bouillon is the same exact way. The way I personally feel from the inside out, is that I want a female who shares the same ideas just like me.

I like to converse with her on a daily basis and share about my entire day. There are player hating men out there who just do not want the next man to have a good African American woman. I am telling you the truth. Men are so jealous of each other that they need to mind their own business. This is a big problem in the African American Community, this is called jealousy. Men have always been jealous of the other and this is causing an outrage in our community when it comes to women.

Elation vs Gratitude

This is a comparison and contrast paper that pertains to the importance of elation vs gratitude. Let’s start this off by asking a question. What is the definition of elation? The word elation means a sense of happiness, excitement, or jubilation. On the other hand, the meaning of gratitude means a sense of thankfulness. I am writing this comparison and contrast paper as a means of practice. Elation and Gratitude tend to go hand in hand. When a person is elated, they are happy or joyful. However, whenever a person has gratitude for something, it has a lot to do with being thankful for someone or something.

Next, when it comes to the word elation, it has a lot to do with an elevated feeling or a high of some sort. Gratitude, always pertains to thankfulness. It is very easy to be thankful for something or someone. I know for instance, when it comes to gratitude, I am thankful for being alive each day of the week. I am thankful to God for allowing me to stay alive as long as he wants me. I know that it makes me very happy to enjoy life, nature, and the environment.

Further, I want to allow God to be the savior of my life. I am grateful to have God as my personal savior. He is always doing for me, more than I am doing for myself. My gratitude comes in by asking him for the things that I need. To be honest, God knows the things that I need of long before I can ask him. According to Matthew 6:8 says the Lord knows the things that you need of long before you ask him. If the Lord knows the things we need in advance, how come He allows suffering?

Also, if the Lord knows my thoughts and ways, how come he allowed me to get Glaucoma? Isaiah 55:10 says for as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts are higher than your thoughts. Elation to me personally is like receiving some thoughts that are impossible to receive. Gratitude and Elation tend to go hand in hand. Elation is a thought, and Gratitude is being thankful for what someone has done for us as well as what God has done for us.

Moreover, I am writing this for the very first time, since I was in college at the University of Toledo. I have a lot of gratitude and elation about the University of Toledo. I am happy to have been a student at the University of Toledo. I want to say that Elation is a very nice feeling. Gratitude is thankfulness for what we have received from someone or something. There are a lot of people who say that I have made a lot of mistakes in my personal life. However, I am a person who does not dwell on the past. Isaiah 43:18 says do not dwell on former things nor dwell on things of the past. I am thankful for not bringing up the past anymore.

Finally, I want to say that God has brought me a mighty long way. I am the type of person who does not dwell on the past. For those who dwell on the past all of the time, I will pray for you. I will depart from you. Elation to me is a fantastic feeling. It is like being happy for what was given to you by God or others. Gratitude is an action word just like the word Elation. Both of these words are action words heightens feelings. Both of these words causes jubilation in a sense. Thank you for reading my blog.

Sincerely,

Anthony Hopkins

What is a Caste System? By Anthony Hopkins

What is meant by caste system?

A caste is a class structure that is determined by birth. Loosely, it means that in some societies, if your parents are poor, you’re going to be poor, too. Same goes for being rich, if you’re a glass-half-full person.
The Origins of the Caste System

According to one long-held theory about the origins of South Asia’s caste system, Aryans from central Asia invaded South Asia and introduced the caste system as a means of controlling the local populations. The Aryans defined key roles in society, then assigned groups of people to them.
What is an example of a caste system?

A caste system, then, is a social structure in which people belong to such social categories; historically, an example is the caste system of India. … Interaction between people of different castes is restricted; for example, commonly people must practice endogamy (marriage within their own caste).

Who Created The Caste System?

Aryans
According to one long-held theory about the origins of South Asia’s caste system, Aryans from central Asia invaded South Asia and introduced the caste system as a means of controlling the local populations. The Aryans defined key roles in society, then assigned groups of people to them.

Hierarchy:

It comprises four varnas or castes. These in descending order of ranking are Brahmins, Kshatriyas, Vaishyas and Shudras. There are many castes between the two extremes-the Brahmins and the Shudras. Their social status depends upon their distance from the Brahmins.

What is class and caste system?

A caste system is one in which social standing is based on ascribed status or birth. Class systems are open, with achievement playing a role in social position. People fall into classes based on factors like wealth, income, education, and occupation.

What are the basic principles of caste system?

According to him, the six main features of the caste system are: segmental division of society, hierarchy of groups, restriction of feeding and social intercourse, allied and religious disabilities and privileges of the different sections, lack of unrestricted choice of occupation, and restriction on marriage.

What is the US caste?

Caste is a form of social stratification characterized by endogamy, hereditary transmission of a style of life which often includes an occupation, ritual status in a hierarchy, and customary social interaction and exclusion based on cultural notions of purity and pollution.

Does caste system still exist?

The caste system as it exists today, is thought to be the result of developments during the collapse of the Mughal era and the rise of the British colonial regime in India.

Does Christianity have a caste system?

Caste system among Indian Christians. The caste system among Indian Christians often reflects stratification by sect, location, and the castes of their predecessors. The caste system today is beyond Hinduism (Hindu society) and it exists in most religions in India.

Does Caste Systems Still Exist in The United States?

The answer to this question is yes. This is simply because it has a whole lot to do with a person’s socioeconomic status. However, a person can change their status by getting a very good job, and a decent education. A person in America status has a lot to do with his way of doing things. I begin to realize that there are 45.7 Million African Americans that are currently living in the United States. This is based on Census Bureau statistics from the end of last year. There are 150 Million Caucasians that currently live in the United States. There are 50 Million Mexican Americans who live in the United States. Due to the 2016 U.S. Election Results, only 25% of the USA Population only voted.

How Can This Come To An End in America?

Job Creation and Neighborhood Revitalization is the key to resolving this serious problem. This means that the majority culture, will have to assist those, who are in need. I know that it is not very easy in a fast paced society. It is very important that we pay attention to what is really going on all around us. I know that it will take Jesus Christ to come back to earth; just to resolve our problems that millions are facing every single day of the week. I understand that it takes a lot of work to make a change for a positive progression in the United States. This means that modern indentured servitude will have to come to a complete end.

Is it True That the Borrower is Servant to the Lender?
By: Anthony Joseph Hopkins/ November 8, 2024

Praise The Lord Saints!! Praise The Lord!! How are all of you doing today? Fine, I hope. I have a very important question to ask all of you. Is it true that the borrower is servant to the lender? This is a very serious question that I would like to ask all of you personally because I have a student loan, and I am having a very difficult time paying it off. The interest of my student loan is 8%. I know that I did not have any business taking out another loan; just to attend college at the University of North Carolina at Charlotte. I enrolled in college during the fall of 2003. I borrowed the money in order to enroll at UNCC. I was not eligible for any more grants that were available at the time. Frankly, I was trying to acquire a second Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology and Social Work. I understand that anytime that a person borrows money in any state, fashion or form, it is like being a slave all over again. I really understand that I have to pay this money back in full. However, I am very disappointed because the interest on my Jamison Loan is $80.00 dollars per month.

Next, I want to inform all of you that it is true that the borrower is servant to the lender. It might be a metaphor at the moment, but in reality, we have to pay off all of our debts. It does not matter what they really are, we have to pay our debts. I really understand that student loan debt is climbing each year. I wish that I could have given the money back!! I know that I only receive Social Security Disability right now. I only earn $959.00 dollars per month right now. I have over $850.00 dollars in bills each month. I know that I have to pay my rent at the moment as well as life insurance, and other bills.

Moreover, I have been going through financial hardships for the past 25 years now. I will admit that the William and Fudge Collection Agency wants me to pay this loan off in full. I have called this agency at their Rock Hill, South Carolina Office and they want me to pay at least $275.00 per month. I have explained to them that I can only pay $50.00 per month. I do not understand why these collection agencies are not willing to come to a complete compromise with me regarding my student loan. I am only paying the interest instead of the principle amount. This is a shame!!
I guess I better go back to work just to pay this student loan.

In Addition, there are people that I have allowed to borrow money from me, but they do not pay me back. These people are called welshers right now. To completely welsh, means to refuse to pay off your debts. I have depleted my allotment when it comes to borrowing money from my life insurance right now. I have asked William and Fudge Collection Agency can I pay the amount that I have agreed in the very beginning!! I have to do what is absolutely necessary in order to pay off all of my debts.

Finally, I want to inform everyone that have debts to pay to make payment arrangements with all of your creditors in person. When it comes to handling things over the telephone is pointless right now. I have to get on my knees and pray to Jesus Christ to help me to pay off all of my debts. Do you know that birds of a feather flock together? This is a wise saying that people who are of certain status tend to affiliate with one another. When it comes to socioeconomic status in the United States as well as other countries, the poor will always go through hell in life. I also will admit that a person cannot establish a relationship with the opposite sex; if you are having hardships in any state, fashion, and form.

This is serious because my ex-wife used me for my money at a period of time during our relationship. She was buying street drugs with my money instead of paying bills for our residence. There are some women and men who will completely drain you of all of your resources. They do not care. Some of the people that I was affiliated with were very apathetic. This is the reason why I would like for everyone to please keep me in your prayers because I am physically, emotionally, mentally, and financially suffering right now. I am telling all of you the truth about my situation.

How important is it for men to learn to listen and respect women?

What do we mean for a boy or a man to learn how to listen and respect women? The answer to this very important question is simple? Communication is performed verbally and nonverbally between men, women, and children on a daily basis. When a boy is inside of the womb of its mother, communication has already been established. His mother is solely responsible for teaching him how to love, honor, cherish, and respect his mother and other women. As far as communication is concerned, this is done nonverbally at first with a child by the use of touch, looks and stares from the eyes of his mother as well as a mother’s innate abilities when it comes to childrearing practices are concerned.

Next, communication is also done verbally through the use of communicating with him in her own native language. However, from a nonverbal perspective is concerned, when a mother looks at a child, the child himself responds by the looks and stares from his mother. Also, when a boy hears his name being called, he is also responsive to her native calls for attention. When a child is between the ages of 0 to 3 years, a method of touch is important. This is very important because it is a form of attachment and bond between mother and child. Touch is also important even in our adult lives because it allows humans to feel appreciated as a member of the human race. Touch is very important because it is the first initial response to a child’s needs.

When a child cries, a parent has to see what is wrong with the child. Maybe, the child himself/herself has issues that need to be addressed. Touch is also therapeutic because it heals the body from infirmities and injuries. For instance, physical, mental, emotional, psychological, and psycho-social related injuries that can cause harm and permanent damages to people. This comes in the form of scarring that is extremely hard to heal; as long as there is a power that is greater than oneself to heal anyone from these social, emotional, mental, and psychological ills that people usually face on a regular basis.

From birth to 18 years, a boy learns how to respect his parents, sister, aunt, grandmother, as well as any other members of his family. Listening is very important!!!! When a boy learns how to listen to women, they respond by giving women respect for the person that she is as a member of the human race. Listening from a child’s perspective comes from learning and training that he receives from his own mother. Learning how to say yes madam and no madam to her is respect for one’s mother and elders as a whole if they are mature women. There are times when a child’s father is completely absent in his life. This adjustment for a child becomes extremely difficult. This is simply because a biological father is supposed to validate a child’s existence!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For example, my biological father was never around so, I had to rely on my grandfather as well as caretakers that I had perceived as positive until I had found out otherwise!!!! There are times when the people who are deemed as stepfathers and those who are classified as being involved in a child’s mother’s life are not positive role models themselves. They are classified as replacements!!!! A replacement is just someone who is just taking up space inside of a household. This is classified as matter. The definition of matter is anything that takes up space!!! This is a scientific definition and it applies to everyday life.

A male child also learns how to respect his female siblings by calling her by her first name and respecting her as a person. Remember, a boy’s mother, sister, aunt, and grandmother are members of the immediate family; as well as members of the human race. As far as a boy becoming a man is concerned, he also has to learn how to demonstrate good communication skills as well as learning how to talk and listen to women. In most cases, there are times that boys do not demonstrate these skills when it comes to learning how to communicate with women and girls.

Moreover, let’s look at how men learn how to listen to women. First, they must learn how to understand her for the person that she is on a personal basis. This is done by listening and communicating with her regarding her personal needs. There are times when men and boys come from dysfunctional families and this itself becomes difficult. For example, if a boy observes his parents arguing and fighting on a regular basis; this learning process becomes disrupted. This is because there is stagnation and problems with the parents that cause this disruption to take place. There are also times when other children and men who are involved in a child’s life that interfere in this process.

Single parent mothers for instance, tend to have a very difficult time making the adjustment as far as becoming a mature parent. An example of this is p

How important is it for men to learn to listen and respect women?

What do we mean for a boy or a man to learn how to listen and respect women? The answer to this very important question is simple? Communication is performed verbally and nonverbally between men, women, and children on a daily basis. When a boy is inside of the womb of its mother, communication has already been established. His mother is solely responsible for teaching him how to love, honor, cherish, and respect his mother and other women. As far as communication is concerned, this is done nonverbally at first with a child by the use of touch, looks and stares from the eyes of his mother as well as a mother’s innate abilities when it comes to childrearing practices are concerned.

Next, communication is also done verbally through the use of communicating with him in her own native language. However, from a nonverbal perspective is concerned, when a mother looks at a child, the child himself responds by the looks and stares from his mother. Also, when a boy hears his name being called, he is also responsive to her native calls for attention. When a child is between the ages of 0 to 3 years, a method of touch is important. This is very important because it is a form of attachment and bond between mother and child. Touch is also important even in our adult lives because it allows humans to feel appreciated as a member of the human race. Touch is very important because it is the first initial response to a child’s needs.

When a child cries, a parent has to see what is wrong with the child. Maybe, the child himself/herself has issues that need to be addressed. Touch is also therapeutic because it heals the body from infirmities and injuries. For instance, physical, mental, emotional, psychological, and psycho-social related injuries that can cause harm and permanent damages to people. This comes in the form of scarring that is extremely hard to heal; as long as there is a power that is greater than oneself to heal anyone from these social, emotional, mental, and psychological ills that people usually face on a regular basis.

From birth to 18 years, a boy learns how to respect his parents, sister, aunt, grandmother, as well as any other members of his family. Listening is very important!!!! When a boy learns how to listen to women, they respond by giving women respect for the person that she is as a member of the human race. Listening from a child’s perspective comes from learning and training that he receives from his own mother. Learning how to say yes madam and no madam to her is respect for one’s mother and elders as a whole if they are mature women. There are times when a child’s father is completely absent in his life. This adjustment for a child becomes extremely difficult. This is simply because a biological father is supposed to validate a child’s existence!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For example, my biological father was never around so, I had to rely on my grandfather as well as caretakers that I had perceived as positive until I had found out otherwise!!!! There are times when the people who are deemed as stepfathers and those who are classified as being involved in a child’s mother’s life are not positive role models themselves. They are classified as replacements!!!! A replacement is just someone who is just taking up space inside of a household. This is classified as matter. The definition of matter is anything that takes up space!!! This is a scientific definition and it applies to everyday life.

A male child also learns how to respect his female siblings by calling her by her first name and respecting her as a person. Remember, a boy’s mother, sister, aunt, and grandmother are members of the immediate family; as well as members of the human race. As far as a boy becoming a man is concerned, he also has to learn how to demonstrate good communication skills as well as learning how to talk and listen to women. In most cases, there are times that boys do not demonstrate these skills when it comes to learning how to communicate with women and girls.

Moreover, let’s look at how men learn how to listen to women. First, they must learn how to understand her for the person that she is on a personal basis. This is done by listening and communicating with her regarding her personal needs. There are times when men and boys come from dysfunctional families and this itself becomes difficult. For example, if a boy observes his parents arguing and fighting on a regular basis; this learning process becomes disrupted. This is because there is stagnation and problems with the parents that cause this disruption to take place. There are also times when other children and men who are involved in a child’s life that interfere in this process.

Single parent mothers for instance, tend to have a very difficult time making the adjustment as far as becoming a mature parent.